Fave-O-Lit Friday: Shel Silverstein
Listen to the Mustn’ts
by Shel Silverstein
Listen to the mustn’ts, child,
Listen to the don’ts
Listen to the shouldn’ts
The impossibles, the won’ts
Listen to the never haves
Then listen close to me –
Anything can happen, child
Anything can be.
* photo courtesy of Cyrena!
Quail Day: Sucking up
That’s our girl dutifully tucking in her chin while she sucks up kefir in her honey bear! Way to go Quail! We’ve been thickening her breastmilk with a variety of foods- mangos, prunes, pears, cinnamon to coax her into complying with Sarah Rosenfeld Johnson’s straw hirearchy. We regularly lecture on the virtues of the chintuck and the importance of it during drinking to her overall health. But try explaining the physics of a straw to a nine-month old. It’s been slow going. The beauty of the flexi-straw in the honey bear is our ability to squeeze some of the liquid up into her mouth. We’ve been working on it since October. We’ve gotten good lip closure and she greets that bear like it’s Yogi Bear come to life when she spies it in any corner of the room. But it wasn’t going much beyond our squeezing the liquid up. And then we realized that Zuzu’s favorite drink was the right consistency for the honey bear- and better yet- Earthfare Grocers sells drinkable plain whole milk yogurt! We added it and voila…she sounded like Maggie Simpson…suck…suck…suck. After one or two more tries with me appling a tiny bit of pressure she managed to start sucking it up without help. We’re still working on straw positioning in her mouth and her not leading into the drink with her tongue. But there is still much happy drinking doing on at our home!
corner view: Earth Day
Happy Earth Day friends! Let’s make a deal- We’ll do what we can and you do what you can to preserve this lovely home of ours! It’s never too early to start!
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Zuzu Day
This is one of the first baby doll’s that joined our brood. Both of the girls love her to pieces. I’ve been asking Zuzu since she was able to pick her up what the baby’s name is and typically what she heard was my asking what her name was and so the answer was always Zuzu. Well in the last week or two a new incarnation of baby emerged. This baby, her name is Fabulous. As in,”Mommie- how was fabulous’s day, tell me about her day, tell me what she did. Zuzu has always loved pretend play based on her own reality. She pretends to get the car keys to get ready to go to market to buy kefir. She needs monies to pay for parking. She turns on my pump and then begs to make milk herself. She sits and reads to her sister and dollies pretending to be Miss Chrystil. And the newest game is with Fabulous. I’m Miss Shaina and if I sit still anywhere in the house for more than 30 seconds, she comes strolling in and deposits Fabulous at my feet, kisses her, tells her she loves her and that she’ll be back after work. Then she runs into the hall and hollars, “Miss Shaina, Miss Shaina- tell everyone whose Mommie is coming?” It is then my job as Miss Shaina to start naming off the kids in her class and asking if their Momma is on her way. Once she shyly enters the room, she then asks for a full report on Fabulous’s day and takes great pride in hearing that Fabulous had a fabulous day- she pooped in the potty, she napped on her mat, she painted a picture of pink hearts, she ate her corn, applesauce and chicken, she played outside and she listened during group time while sitting, ” Criss-cross applesauce, hands in her bowl”. She literally beams with pride over Fabulous’s fabulous day, picks her up, tells, her “Oh my dear, Momma loves you” then gathers her coat and shoes and heads into the hall to start from scratch.
Momma Monday
Last Tuesday a sweet family was kind enough to watch our gaggle of girls while Lovey and I both had to work. When I picked the girls up Zuzu wanted to know why she got to go to her friend’s house since it was not the typical weekday routine. The conversation went like this:
Zuzu: Momma why did Denise pick me up?
Momma: Because Momma had to work out of town today sweetie. Momma got a promotion at work and had to train for her new job.
Zuzu: A promotion?
Momma: Yes, Momma was told she did a good job and so she gets to do a new job.
Zuzu: Do you mean your teacher told you to be quiet while she read the story and you did so you got a special heart sucker treat?
Momma: Yes Zuzu, that’s exactly what I mean.
Gratitude Journal
2. Spring Days
3. Super soft Target pants
4. jean day
5. a friendly visit
6. an opportunity to learn a new job
7. safe travels
8. a creeping-crawling baby
9. good friends willing to help out
10. a baby who bounces back after the vampire-phlebotomist got to her
11. new friends to work with the Quail
12. fried apple pies
13. praline bacon
14. co-napping
15. tomato pie with tangy tomatoes
16. matching summer jammies
17. drinkable yogurt
18. a visitin’ Cyrena
19. thrift store kiddo clothes
20. matching spring tu-tus
21. Fabulous
See What I Saw Saturday
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Quail Day: Great Feets/Feats & Juggling Acts
Life is full of balancing acts right? How to get enough attention to all who need it? Well synergy fell into our nest this past weekend as a braincell or 2 of mine perked up and suggested I spend time petting and brushing Chula Cat at an adequately safe distance from the Quail. The Quail is a big fan of the Chula Cat. Nothing gets her wings flapping and her eye’s trained as hawk’s eyes on her target as our dear Chula Cat. And Chula Cat since she has arrived in our lap has been slowly letting us know she would like to be more, albeit safely, centered into the mix. The latest milestone we have been working hard towards is the elusive crawl. Mark the PT suggested it looked like the Quail may skip it and go to standing and walking in the next year, which is fine if that is what is to be. But we would like the crawl to happen if at all possible. I was inspired by this family’s bribe to get their lil one to crawl. But while Cheetos would definately get Zuzu and Lovey motoring across the room, I’m less convinced it would work with the Quail. For Zuzu she started first going backwards, as had her Momma, and then eventually forward when the telephone was in site. I felt less sure about the appropriate motivational tool for the Quail until Chula Cat happened into a therapy session with us this past weekend and voila, amongst a lot of wings flapping, feathers and fur flying we had backward motion! Fly baby fly!
ps: No cats were harmed in the production of these shots.









