Mommaday: our regular

While there are many to choose from in our little town, this one has been our favorite from the very beginning. Not just because it is the closest to us, but because it offers the most shade, swinging, climbing and sliding options and the softest landing when you are, say; learning to swing, climb and slide. City folks know it as Ashley-Dearing, in our home it’s referred to as Alden Park, named for a sweet first friend of Zuzu’s we used to see there routinely. This last vist was particularly sweet because it was the first time the Quail was utterly mobile. Zuzu off and independent. Me just grinning, Lovey on his way with lunch. A perfect late morning for a little family.

sunday still life

Sunday Still Life is an attempt to capture the beauty and the depth of busy days in a slow and simple way. If you feel inspired, join Erin,  here. Keep it slow. Keep it simple.

On the heals of the precious, joyfilled news that the Quail is not in need of open-heart surgery in the next year, I returned home from work to the news that Zuzu had thrown up at school. The gratitude I feel for a simple childhood illness that only needs cuddles,stuffed animals, a plastic bucket, cold sips of water and popcicles to heal is boundless. Bless their hearts. Both of them.

gratitude

1. Heather joining in

2. how the air makes me feel when I’m cranky and go outside to cool off

3. watching a day lily’s life

4. the flow of salt, red wine, parsley and lemon over my grilled perfection of a plate

5. realizing the children will never know we split the left over triple chocolate cheesecake

6. the anniversary of the kiss

7. when asked to choose between blueberry and blackberry as the base of the new chess pie; noticing that Lovey put both in the cart

8. feeling light-hearted

9. a memory of a grilled meal in Florence

10. Dancing with The Quail to this song

11. Lovey topping it with this song

12. yardwork done together

13. the sisters splitting a peaches & pecan waffle with fresh whipped cream

14. Fried cheese grits with tomato gravy

15. Friends gathering at a baby friendly hour to celebrate the 4th!

16. Lovey’s rebaking of the pies

17. letting it go

18. NO HEART SURGERY FOR THE QUAIL!!!!!!!

19. a simple childhood run-of-the-mill virus

20. sips of cool water

21. The Quail’s charm as she rushes around the waiting room patting little old ladies on the knee in some sort of blessing to them.

Fave-O-Lit Friday

Bed In Summer

Robert Louis Stevenson

In winter I get up at night
And dress by yellow candle-light.
In summer quite the other way,
I have to go to bed by day.

I have to go to bed and see
The birds still hopping on the tree,
Or hear the grown-up people’s feet
Still going past me in the street.

And does it not seem hard to you,
When all the sky is clear and blue,
And I should like so much to play,
To have to go to bed by day?

Quailday: Best. News. Ever.

Bless her dear heart as we head to the pediatric cardiologist this morning…

Updates:

If I could add our grinning mugs to this post I would do so! We had the best news possible; truly a gift, a blessing, a new lease on life.

No, the hole has not closed. But, it’s smaller. Her heart remains perfectly symmetrical. There is no leakage, no congestion, no decline in her growth and development. In other words no congestive heart failure. No effect on her little body from this tiny hole.

I’ve never been tickled to have a doctor start a sentence with, “I’m not entirely confident…” except when that sentence ends with my new favorite phrase, “…that intervention will even be necessary.”

Last year at this appointment, he told us that if she still had a hole this summer, the plan would be to schedule our pre-op with MUSC to have the VSD closed. This year he said, that he honestly hadn’t expected her to grow at all. She remains in the middle of her growth charts. Her color is good. Her breathing is even. Her energy is high. He said there isn’t a pediatric cardio-thoracic surgeon around that he could convince to intervene right now.

Best. News. Ever.

The plan is to continue annual follow-ups and when she is 5 we will re-assess if intervention may be necessary. He said when he met us he couldn’t foresee a future where we wouldn’t be intervening. He thought we would have had to by now. Now, he can see the glimmer of that possible future. He said, and this is speculation; but last fall, when she suddenly became a full-force toddler: smarter, faster, stronger, energetic and motivated; that she probably had crossed a threshold where the impact of the VSD on her system went from significant, to not so much. We didn’t imagine it.

This little bird started flying.

And we’re going to soar with her.

Fly, Quail-ee Fly!

Oh- and Bless Dora the Explorer and her pal Boots along with the folks at General Mills Cheerio factory for keeping our bird still long enough to let us get a good picture of her pretty, pumping heart.

We’re eternally grateful.

And thank you dear Dr. Lucas.

corner view: before and after

 

Corner view is a weekly Wednesday date hosted originally hosted by Jane, currently by Francesca. A topic is given and you can see impressions; be it in photographic or poetic in form from around the world:  Jane, Dana, Bonny, Joyce, Ian, Francesca, Theresa, Cate, Kasia, Otli, Trinsch, Isabelle, Janis, Kari, jgy, Lise, Dorte, McGillicutty, Sunnymama, Ibb, Kelleyn, Ninja, Sky, RosaMaria, Juniper, Valerie, Sammi, Cole, Don, WanderChow, FlowTops, Tania, Tzivia, Kristin, Laura, Guusje, Susanna, Juana, Elsa, Nadine

gratitude

1. playtime

2. noticing

3. tiny hands around your neck

4. Cereal time

5. free coffee from the library

6. our new favorite pie- Rhubarb-Chess

7. last minute plans

8. fried gnocci

9. being the one cuddled into when the little one was scared

10. a secret path

11. golden sand freckling a 4 year old’s cheery face

12. pink-frosted donuts for dear Mattie

13. business as usual when it’s snack time for a 2 year old

14. a new prevacid Rx seeming to work

15. appointments scheduled

16. kindness

17. check offs on to-do lists

18. family playdates

19. praise

20. giving praise

21. bedtime