Great necessities call out great virtues.
corner view: daily
Now ask us about our out–of-the-ordinary days!
Celebrate Bloomsday traveling around the world to see other’s daily lives:
caitlin, joyce, ani, kim, natsumi, epe, kaylovesvintage, trinsch, c.t., jeannette, outi, ritva, francesca, state of bliss, jennifer,
denise, cabrizette, bohemia girl, isabelle, amber, a girl in the yellow shoes, janis, kari, jgy, skymring, elizabeth, allison, lise, cate, otli, ida, lisa, dorte, kimmie, nicola, vanessa, britta, april, b, kyndale, samantha, kristina, goldensunfamily, sophie, mcgillicutty, aimee, sunnymama, britta, juanita, inna, daan, myrtille, cris, ibb, jodi, gillian, travelingmama
Zuzu Day: Warning: Guard your freezers…
Wherever we go, there is always one question on Zuzu’s mind- “Do you have any popsicles?”
If we go to the farm tour, where are the popsicles?
If we go to a birthday party, where are the popsicles?
If we go on a playdate, where are the popsicles?
Mind you, there is only one right answer to this question. But if you get it wrong? She’ll give you another chance, “Maybe you should go check your freezer just to be sure you don’t have popsicles.”
She’s a focused little girl, that Zuzu.
Out to pasture…
Well, it’s about time for the girls to go out to pasture. By the time all is said and the crying is done, it will have been about 45 months of milk making. I still have some torn feelings about this. There is still a huge part of me that feels weird about The Quail only getting 15 months of breastmilk and Zuzu getting 45. But we had a lot of issues to work through with the Quail and we are still working on those. I’ll talk more later about the Quail’s eating and drinking strides. She’s made some real ones.
My goal was to make it through her surgery and once she was recovered from that I would slowly wean off of the pump and nursing. I’m so incredibly grateful to Zuzu. If she wasn’t such a dedicated comfort nurser I realize I may not have even been able to produce milk for the Quail for 15 months while working full-time. It’s an incredible gift from Zuzu. One neither of them can understand or appreciate now. But I know. And I appreciate it- the increased immunity, cognitive ability, oral-motor strengthening and weight gain while we nursed during the first 9 months. What a gift that liquid gold is. Realizing just how many barriers our sweet Quail had blocking her from thriving- the expectation of limited growth associated with Down syndrome, the moderate ventricular septal defect and the duodenal stenosis leaving her with a pen tip sized opening to push her food through. The hypotonia and motor planning difficulties making it even more difficult to activate the strength needed to push that food through the opening and nourish her little cherubic body. It’s all a miracle that she has thrived. If life hadn’t happened in exactly the order and on the timeline that it did, many sadder outcomes could have been our reality.
But they weren’t our reality- and we are so blessed. And it’s time to give the girls a rest. Till next time…
Hero Worship
Dear Pudge,
I’ve decided I’d like to emulate you. My mom thinks I might be taking things too far. I had surgery recently and I’ve thoroughly enjoyed my meals since then. The doctor told me I’ve gained 1 lb in two weeks. My mom thinks that’s too much. I think I”m just making up for lost time. At any rate, I’d just like to show you that I’ll take your Pudge, and see you a dinner roll thigh and arm or two.
Much love, The Quail (soon to be Big Bird)
See what I Saw Saturday
Thanks Molly!
Still hangin’ in there…
All is still well on the home-front. There will be more blogging to come as we sort out new routines. There are lots of little changes happening in our daily days and we’re just trying to routinize them to make sure there is still plenty of me-time, work-time, us-time, them-time, real-life face-to-face time and cyber-time. Lots of laughter, smiles, healthy-hearty glows.
I miss my online time and friends and family that I”m away from. Even those I’m nearby- but still away from. It’s so hard to find that balance of trying to make everyone happy and still be happy yourself, you know? To make enough time for all the necessities and still have time for little indulgences. To keep up with everyone in one format or another. I’m so grateful for technology though. If it wasn’t for all the advances in society there would so much that would have to fall by the wayside due to distance and time. Even with all of these advances it is still hard to keep up with everyone- in-person and cyber. But I’m grateful for another day to try!
More to come soon…hugs, love, happiness and peace to everyone and thing.
corner view: bliss
Easy-peasy this week- the obvious choice is my children chortling. Ever since the Quail has returned from the hospital there has been much of this in our happy home. It’s amazing the little leaps this bird has made. One is the reciprocating engine that is the sisterhood of these girls. They have been taking great pleasure in making each other laugh. Zuzu will fly into the room, stop short ,laugh- or actually guffaw, calling out silly words- you know- things everyone thinks is hilarious- like: “Abba-dabba-cabba-boo!”They’ll both bend over in stitches over it. Resume their places and begin again. And to think I once wondered about the wisdom of having a second child and what it might take away from my first….
Although I will say- while these particular shots make me smile- I could have sworn I had shots of the two pouncing on each other. Obviously I have work to do. Should be easy enough since it is “daily” in our house!
Sail around the world in merriment:
caitlin, joyce, ani, kim, natsumi, epe, kaylovesvintage, trinsch, c.t., jeannette, outi, ritva, francesca, state of bliss, jennifer, denise, cabrizette, bohemia girl, isabelle, amber, a girl in the yellow shoes, janis, kari, jgy, skymring, elizabeth, allison, lise, cate, otli, ida, lisa, dorte, kimmie, nicola, vanessa, britta, april, b, kyndale, samantha, kristina, goldensunfamily, sophie, mcgillicutty, aimee, sunnymama, britta, juanita, inna, daan, myrtille, cris, ibb, jodi, gillian, travelingmama
Zuzu Day: The first dance…
Our little ballerina twirled away in her first recital on May 15! That morning practice was at the recital hall- a hall mind you, that seats 4oo. Having never done this before I thought that seemed a little extravagant for a child’s ballet recital. We were to arrive 30 minutes prior to curtain and we wondered on the way over what we would do for that 30 minutes while we waited. Well- it turned out we would use it finding a seat! The hall was packed! That morning when we arrived for practice Zuzu was feeling a little shy and showed that she is indeed my little apple seed as she stood in line on stage leaning over and whispering to me in the front row that she had to go potty. Again, and again, and again. She made it through though and was a real trooper. That morning we learned that dancers bring their teachers gifts to the final recital practice. Ooops.
That evening after we dropped her backstage and found seats next to some folks we knew we just soaked in the Quail’s enjoyment of a night out on the town. Going to shows, storytime, pottery painting; anything that requires sitting still and listening for longer than 30 seconds has just not been our ideal as a family. Zuzu is a free spirit. She likes to run and holler and leap and play. So it hadn’t occurred to us how much the Quail might enjoy this setting. She sat proudly on our laps greeting each neighbor that sat down with a smile and a wave. When the house lights came down and the stage lights started circling she was delighted. The sparkly costumes gleamed, the girls glowed and the Quail clapped and cheered along with everyone else.
When Zuzu’s class came on it was definitely one of the big “awwwwwww” inducers from the crowd. There is nothing cuter than a stream of 3 year olds decked out in their glittery tutus. Although Zuzu was a little more focused on her steps this evening she did spend a fair bit of the time with her hand shielding the lights from her eyes so she could locate us better. Unfortunately due to our arriving only 30 minutes prior to the show we were in the nosebleed section and couldn’t actually locate us. She was darling nonetheless. All the little fishies did their swim, swim, swim. And when it was over she came flying into our waiting arms and exclaimed the two prominent thoughts on her mind:
1. “I couldn’t find you anywhere! I looked and looked and looked while I was on stage!” We know Zuzu.
2. “Where are my flowers? Katie has her flowers!” We’re sorry Zuzu, we didn’t know, but we will next year!
She actually glowed with pride after the show was over!We’re sad to see the dance year come to an end. Zuzu was one of the youngest in her class and we worried if she would have the discipline to make it through the fairly focused class. But her teacher is a wonder. She’s been teaching for 54 years (yes, that’s right- 54- you do the math!) and has those children in line, in order, in step and on time. Maddie loved it and although she was incredibly shy about showing us what she learned, she obviously worked hard this past year. We’re so proud of our little prima!
Momma Monday: My Momma, Yo Momma
This past week Zuzu got it- and by it I mean that everyone has Mommas and Poppas- not just her. While Gramma was here she reasoned out that Gramma was my Momma and Nana is Lovey’s Momma. Which was a delight initially and then a little less and less sentimental as the weeks went on. At one point I heard my mom calling Zuzu Lady. Zuzu- of course responded with, “I’m not Lady, I’m Zuzu!” At which point my mom tried a new bargaining chip- that if she would continue to call her Gramma, then she would remember to call her Zuzu. You can’t blame my mom- she’s waited patiently to earn this revered title and has worn it proudly. Zuzu would agree, and then a little while later come to tell me something that my momma needed. Oh dear. Well when Auntie D gets married this fall my guess is her title will be the next to fall as Zu continues her current train of thought and notices that D is my sister, just like the Quail is her sister. Enjoy it while you can family!




































